sammy / Website (28.6.06 10:27) perhaps not what you want to hear but maybe you could have a break? it will either show you that things were wrong or he will realise what he's lost. i had the same thing before, amazing time together but in the end it isn't enough and you will drive yourself mad. alternatively, make yourself just as busy as he is - 'oh sorry, i'm seeing (whoeever)/doing something' he won't like it.... and will realise what he's doing men are odd like that, if they think you're having fun without them, they suddenly get protective!

martian / Website (28.6.06 10:32) Thanks sammy, that could be an option, but we have barely seen or talked to each other recently so I don't know how much of a difference it would make. Whenever I have other things going on he isnt bothered at all, just says 'oh thats fine, we can meet up some other time', he just dosent seem bothered at all! it really is driving me mad - especially as I have to wait days to speak to him properly normally! aargh!

Kate / Website (28.6.06 10:38) Oh sweetie, you do deserve better than that. I think the best advice would be to let him go, I don't think he's going to change and it's not worth all your upset for a couple of good nights a month, but do what feels right, I probably wouldn't listen to me if I were in a similar situation!

emmm / Website (28.6.06 10:40) it sounds like one of those relationships that would have been perfect at any other time but just not right now. I would take a deep breath and walk away. There'll be others, and this way you can look back on it fondly rather than remembering it dragging on forever and getting all snarly and full of recriminations at the end.

emmm / Website (28.6.06 10:41) oh I heard this really great thing about wanting/expecting someone to change recently. It was basically along the lines of: you can't change a brick wall by banging your head against it, all you're going to do is really hurt your head. People just don't really change because of other people, they kind of have ot wake up and realise and change themselves.

martian / Website (28.6.06 11:11) Kate, thanks, I think it probably is the right time to end it, I couldn't cope like this for much longer. Em, the bit about timing makes alot of sense, and I would definately prefer to look back on this happily rather than hating him. Mybe if he does wake up one day and realise then we can try again, but until then its probably best left behind.

Katja / Website (28.6.06 12:00) Yes, I'm sorry to say it but I agree with the girls above - sounds to me like it's time to walk away. If he's not prepared to put the effort in then it's not worth you beating yourself up over x

martian / Website (28.6.06 15:14) Thanks Kat, that really is looking like the best option. x

Purple / Website (30.6.06 17:10) Sounds like he doesn't deserve your attention tbh! Not that my advice is particularly good in this arena mind! Best of luck with whatever you decide!

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